Over the past two weeks, I have learned three very important life lessons that have definitely helped me grown as a person. I have learned:
- Everything matters should start with "me". Happiness, Sadness, Joy, frustration, etc. etc. are all in MY mind set and within my control. Everything else, I have no rights or the need to worry.
- In relation to the first point. Never ever have expectations and sucumb to the tendency of co-dependency with anything or anyone. Expecations creates co-dependency that leads the elements of negative feelings if these expecations were not met. No expectations. No excuses and live life independently. And that is the path to true maturity.
- Action speaks louder than words. What I do will dictate what I am more than what I say.
Point 3 sums it all up. You can hear all the advice in the world, but until you do something about it, nothing will change.
ReplyDeleteGet married, have kids, than someone will "depend" on you. Definitely will make you mature...FAST!
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